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Why am I so unproductive when it's a holiday the next day?

09.06.2025 04:58

Why am I so unproductive when it's a holiday the next day?

Wouldn't that just be a beautiful relief from the ruthless reality?

Frustrated at day to day stuff that suddenly stops working or day to day tasks that often come off as annoying.

Taking continuous orders and often reprimands from the seniors and higher ups.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

It drains all of us so much that many just sleep at the moment of contact with their bed/matress.

Shreyansh

Now imagine that you don't have to continue this enervating cycle for the next two days.

Why do I smell bad even though I have good hygiene?

Yours Truly

Then your house chores, personal tasks and commitments.

You work from 9 to 5 each day.

What are the reasons why am I so tired before my period?

Isn't all of this just draining? Sure is.

Adding to that the commute from home to work and back.

It is because we feel we finally have some time to can relax without worrying for the next day.

Is it wise to SECRETLY expose a narcissist by telling others that he/she is a covert narcissist?

This very feeling of sense of relief and calm is what makes us unproductive the day when there's holiday next day.

Tiring officework/college works, hectic schedules, exhilarating deadlines, stressful environment.